Te ha pasado que sientes que piensas o sientes que  tus hijos no te escuchan, por más que les pides algo simplemente no sucede, quiero platicar mi experiencia, cuando alguna mamá escribe pidiendo consejos sobre qué hacer para que su hijo obedezca, una de mis primeras preguntas es generalmente les pregunto qué es lo que buscan o necesitan, la mayoría de las veces me contestan que lo único que quieren es que su hijo obedezca y se porte bien.

¿Qué es portarse bien? Si tienes oportunidad cuestiona a diferentes personas y cada una te dirá algo diferente, si pretendes que tus hijos comprendan lo que quieres que hagan, lo más fácil e importante es que primero tu tengas claro que es lo que exactamente deseas.

Una  sugerencia es  hablarles  en positivo y de forma concreta, seré más clara en lo que les menciono, por ejemplo si sabes que irán a consulta con el  pediatra, notifícale a tu hijo lo que va a pasar, explícale lo que tu esperas de él, dilo además ve preparada para lo que puedas necesitar; esto es, “Iremos a ver al doctor porque te toca revisión, te pido que mientras pasamos  a la revisión  te quedes sentado a mi lado” , “llevaré crayolas o juguetes para que te entretengas mientras nos pasa a consulta”

En ocasiones solamente cambiamos a nuestro hijo sin decirle nada, en el camino le decimos vamos al doctor y estando ahí le pedimos que se porte bien, sin siquiera explicarle a el lo que esto para nosotros significa.

La próxima vez que le digas a tu hijo, obedece o pórtate bien, has un alto y piensa si estás siendo clara con él.

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